Sunday, June 20, 2010

Interview with Liz (Andrea's baby sitter)

Liz is one of the baby sitters who has sat for Andrea. She has probably been with Andrea at least a half dozen times. All of them (except for one) with Andrea as an 8 year old little girl. I sent her these questions last week by email and received these answers.

What was your reaction when you saw Andrea as a little girl the first time?
I almost died laughing. I could not believe what I was seeing. A grown man dressed as a little girl walking around, talking and acting like a child. I thought it was quite the funny act. But it did not take too long for me to realize that Andrea really is a little girl. She was not acting at all. That was even more shocking. Joanne explained to me how easy it was to reduce this submissive sissy to a child. I was very surprised but even more impressed.

Tell us about your relationship with Andrea.
Andrea is a sweet and darling little girl. I love playing dolls with her. Reading her books. Watching girly movies with her. She truly is a pretty princess. She reacts to new discoveries with the joy and excitement of a child. She screams with excitement. I love to see the joy in her eyes. We have a fun time together. But, like any child, she gets into a bad mood and pouts when she cannot have her way. Then she needs an attitude correction. Sometimes a time-out or maybe a spanking.

Is there anything you have done differently with Andrea than with other girls her age?
Andrea is much less mature than other 8 year old girls. Emotionally and intellectually she is at least a year or two behind. Maybe more. I'm not the expert. Just comparing her to other girls her age. She has too many babyish tendencies that come out at inappropriate times.

What do you enjoy most about baby sitting for Andrea?
She is so sweet and delightful. She loves to please.

How do you feel about Andrea being a 3 year old baby in diapers now?
Last week was the first time I sat for Andrea when she was a 3 year old baby girl. This just seems much more age appropriate for her. Especially since she still cannot control her bodily functions. That's the minimum expectation to get out of diapers.
She drinks warm milk and juice from a bottle. I also feed her jars of baby food. her vocabulary is limited to the words that a 3 year old would know. If anything I would say she has just turned 3 years old. She has a long way to go to reach the maturity level of a 4 year old girl.


Please feel free to post questions for Liz. I will send them to her for her replies.

Joanne

Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Tinkling Andrea

Andrea was taught a new trigger word last Sunday, "Tinkling Andrea". Every time we visit with Susan she tells me she is amazed at how submissive and compliant Andrea is. The purpose of this new trigger word combination is for Andrea to lose control of her bladder and wet her panties.
We tried it a few times on Sunday evening without success. Then I realized that Andrea probably did not have a full bladder at the time because when she got undressed her panties were a bit wet. But not enough to notice while we were out.

I left work mid-afternoon on Monday and took Andrea for an early dinner and shopping. She was wearing her Pretty Princess dress and Barbie panties. We went to Denny's where I order her a grilled cheese sandwich and milk. I love ordering her food from the children's menu. It's enjoyable to reinforce that she is a child for everyone she meets. I had her drink 3 tall glasses of milk.

She asked to go pee but I told her to wait. We went into Macy's and were browsing around the women's department. After a few minutes I told her to stand next to me near a rack of dresses. She did as she was told. Then I said to her "Tinkling Andrea". OMG! She was peeing in her panties, down her leg and on the floor. She could not stop. Of course, I got very upset with her and asked her what she was doing?

"Andrea, what is wrong with you? Can't you control yourself? Are you a baby who cannot control her wetting"?
Andrea broke into tears. She had no idea what was happening. I could tell how embarrassed and humiliated she was.

I took her to the baby changing room and put her on the table. Then I cleaned her with baby wipes and put clean panties (which I had in my purse) on her. I explained to her that if she could not control herself she will have to be diapered and learn to accept being treated as a baby. She was very distraught. Whimpering and crying.

On Tuesday I brought her with me to the Bridal Shoppe. She was in the back room playing. I gave her a large bottle of juice and told her to drink it all. I came back 30 minutes later and gave her another. She drank that. About 30 minutes more I took her with me to a meeting with the girls. She was standing a few feet away from me when I use the new trigger words. OMG! This time she just let go immediately. All the girls noticed. Their reaction made Andrea break down and start bawling just like a baby. Embarrassment and humiliation were not even close to what I could see on her face.

"Andrea", I said in a very stern voice, "I have had enough of this baby behavior. What do we need to do? Must we put you in diapers and treat you like a baby?" So Sweet. She cried and nodded her head and said "Yes" in a small voice.

I sent her back to the ladies room with Ms Emily to change and diaper her. When she returned she was wearing a diaper and had a pacifier in her mouth and a baby bottle in her hand. The look of humiliation on her face was incredible.

"Andrea, you are a 3 year old baby girl. Babies of that age don't know too many words. So be careful of what you say or you will be punished. But now it is time for you to go and take a nap. Babies need lots of sleep." I gave her a plush bunny and took her to the back room and put her on the couch to sleep.

Now I need to look for nursery schools for our little baby girl.

Joanne




Saturday, June 5, 2010

Nursery school or First Grade?

Andrea came home from Lindas on Tuesday. I gave her quite a spanking. Her bottom is still very red and sore. She was told how awful and inappropriate her behavior was. In the meantime she is in diapers and has a pacifier in her mouth when she is not eating. It is very humiliating for her to pee and go in her diapers like a baby. She is so embarrassed that she must ask to have her diapers changed (either by me or her teenage baby sitter). When we are out I carry a diaper bag for those times when baby Andrea needs to be changed. Plus a plastic baby bottle if she is thirsty. I also have some jars of baby food in the bag if she is hungry. All of that is very disturbing to Andrea. But she has been told that if she acts like a baby she will be treated as one. This will end tonight. She will be allowed back in her pretty Barbie panties on Sunday.

We will be visiting Susan on Sunday. If you remember, she is Andrea's therapist and hypnotist. We are going to add another trigger word, "Tinkling Andrea". On hearing this she will immediately lose control of her bladder and wet her panties. Of course, this will happen when she is in public with others present. Andrea will soon learn to ask to be diapered and learn to accept being treated like a baby who cannot control her wetting. An 8 year old girl does not wet her panties.

So the question is, come September, whether Andrea will be a 3 year old girl in nursery school or a 6 year old girl in first grade who is completely potty trained. I am sure the sight of little miss Andrea trying to go while sitting on her potty chair will be quite a sight. It is sad that it will be very frustrating for her because she will have no control over her bladder. She must be kept in diapers until she proves she is potty trained.

If she is in nursery school I plan to convert her room into a nursery. That mean she will be a baby girl for a very long time.
Please let me know what you think. Nursery School or First Grade?

Joanne